While the polarity of pleasure can play out in many different ways, the way Dragons (masculine) and Tigers (feminine) differ in their approach to sex is one of the most obvious.

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Filling an open Feminine (Tiger) heart with enough pleasure and love is like filling a sandcastle moat with water at the beach—it’s a constant and endless work in progress. And while you can certainly do it alone, that’s a lot of work, and it can be a little lonely. It’s OK to recruit help.

Practicing Polarity can be really challenging, even for me!

By putting in energy work, over time, you can change how you operate within your family dynamic and how you both perceive and affect your family members—which can lead to a richer family experience, closer relationships, and less trauma.

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Gillian Harper and I discuss the Law of Polarity and why it's so important for couples to understand. We discuss what the Law of Polarity is and how you can utilize it to be more attractive, raise your passion, and give your relationships a much-needed breath of fresh air.

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This week I returned from a 10 day trip exhausted with ‘lots to do’. I was feeling deeply into my masculine energy (Dragon). An energetic space I don’t love to hold for long periods of time.

Sometimes I really need help letting go so I can get back into my happy place, which is my Tiger energy (feminine).

This week I embarked on a solo pilgrimage to my childhood town in rural Australia to say goodbye to my grandfather. It feels like a good moment to talk about energy in the context of our family.

In order to improve our polarity with our partner (or attract the right partner) we have to start by becoming more aware of our own energy. It’s infinitely harder to practice polarity unless you are deeply self aware.

Are you craving more of that deep, sexy Dragon (masculine) stability from your partner? You can learn how to encourage your partner to go deeper into their dominant energy right now.

In order to master the power of polarity, self awareness is key. How are you feeling today? What energy are you in? You can’t expect to create attractive and powerful polarity with your partner if you aren’t in touch with your own energy and what you are craving energetically.

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The first step to create Polarity is to deeply understand the Dragon (masculine energy) and the Tiger (feminine energy). Because to create Polarity, someone needs to be predominantly in their Dragon and someone needs to be in their Tiger.

I was surprised to learn that unlike most cats, tigers cannot purr. When they want to show that they're feeling happy, they will squint or close their eyes. Tigers don't like surprises, so closing their eyes lowers their critical visual defenses, so they will only intentionally give up their visual advantage when they're feeling safe.

It’s somewhat of a paradox: The Tiger (aka the inner Feminine) doesn’t want to “let go” until they feel safe, but they won’t feel safe until they let go and see that they already are as safe as they possibly can be. The truth is that the Tiger can handle life in the wild. They were designed precisely for it.

Tigers (those of us embodying feminine energy) have invested countless hours, days, and years building a beautiful, safe, loving home and life for ourselves, we need to know that while we are off having fun there will still be a home to come back to, not a pile of rubble. That confidence comes from consistent assurances—and demonstrations—from our partners that you’ve “got this.”

First things first, my Dragon reader: Let’s address that burning desire in your chest to be “free.”

What freedoms are you chasing right now? Are they financial? Will you finally be happy when your private jet flies you to freedom? Perhaps you’ll finally be happy when you are free of your boss’s micromanagement or free of those excess pounds you’re carrying around.

For those of us deep in an energy, friendships can be important to pull us towards the center. Particularly for Tigers who are in creative fields and spend little to no time in their Dragon or workaholic Dragons who spend little to no time in their Tiger.

For those deep in their dominant energy, free time can be used to calibrate energy and pull back from the depths to create a little more balance.