A sad and disturbing phenomenon has emerged in modern relationships: Our partners have become
our everything.

They have become our best friend, our lover, career mentor, co-parent, gym buddy, fellow food critic, and tv-binge-watching partner.

And if you were in a relationship in 2020, you
did literally everything together.

All. Day. Long.

But by being our everything, our relationships have lost that special something—that thing that made this person “the one” at the start.  Whether we can admit it or not, most of us are coasting through life in a dull numbness of coexistence. All of our time spent together has created a crisis of energetic and sexual neutrality. Like magnets, we have rubbed up against each other for so long, with such consistency, that we have completely lost the powerful attraction we once had.

The good news is that you don’t need to settle for a life that is neutral—a life devoid of desire and passion. It’s time to stop settling and to start enjoying more: more excitement, more love, more freedom, more respect, more attention, and much more lust.