Sexy Time: Our approach to Sex

While the polarity of pleasure can play out in many different ways, the way Dragons (masculine) and Tigers (feminine) differ in their approach to sex is one of the most obvious. For the Dragon, having sex or self love is just another challenge with a very clear purpose—to be free of their overwhelming sense of desire. The Dragon will comfortably use visual aids, without craving any emotional attachment to the material itself. And while variety is nice, Dragons like to be efficient, so if something has worked with their sexual partner (or themselves) once, they will likely use it again and again to ensure the efficient and successful completion of the challenge. Dragons also tend to want to be in control of the mission to ensure it is successful, so they may be more active and dominating in the bedroom.

For the Tiger, sexual intimacy is an extension of their desire for connection and to be seen and loved—so seduction is important. Tigers will likely want to prepare for sex in advance, activating their senses via seductive clothing and grooming. When they feel attractive and desirable, the Tiger can relax and enjoy the experience. If the Tiger feels like they are just another tool assisting the Dragon to complete their challenge, they will not be deeply fulfilled by the experience and may even regret or resent their sexual encounter. Tigers ultimately see sex as an opportunity for intimacy and achieving a deeper connection with their partner; they want to use sex as a way of opening to the Dragon Energy and welcoming the Dragon into their heart.

The different ways Dragons and Tigers deal with these aspects of our lives can either ignite our own energy and the energy of our partners or be a source of tension and misunderstanding. It is critical to understand how to create the kind of Polarity that brings us together rather than pulls us apart, as I’ll talk about more in my book -->

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