What is the Law of Polarity?

According to the natural Law of Polarity, people with opposite sexual energy produce an attractive force between them, while people with the same energy produce a neutral or repulsive force. As the old saying goes, opposites attract. And the larger the energetic distance between two people, the greater the attraction.

In relationships, our similarities are what help us to create intimacy, friendship and trust. What we have in common, our shared values and worldview help us to have companionship with our partner.  But it is our energetic differences that create our passion. And preserving our energetic uniqueness can be more challenging than we realize, particularly when we spend extended periods of time with our partner.

The sad reality of relationships today is that most of us are coasting through life in a dull numbness of coexistence. We are spending so much uninterrupted time with our partner that it has created a crisis of energetic and sexual neutrality. Like magnets, we rub up against each other for so long, with such consistency, that we completely dull the powerful attraction we once had. In order to get it back we need to intentionally create space. 

There are techniques you can use to actively and constructively push yourself away from your partner or push them away from you—and, yes, I mean “away” in order to regain some of the tension that attracted you to each other in the first place. That’s what we’ll explore in the posts on this site as well as in my book Feed the Tiger, Free the Dragon. By the end, you will be able to quickly and easily create Polarity in your relationship just when you need it.

Plus, understanding the principles of Polarity won’t just allow you to create more passion with your partner, it will also help you to improve other areas of your life, such as deepening your friendships, advancing your career, and healing old family wounds. 

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